in a war , when you choose the wrong battle .. you will end up losing devastating . from the beginning , shouldnt make up the decision to battle , as the conclusion is known ..
you understand the opponent has enough manpower to defeat us , they have better equipment and strategies . so if continues with battle , it will hurts phyiscally ( soldiers ), mentally ( strategies ) and time ..
but is it worthwhile to fight for the battle . is there a miracle will happen ? nobody will know till end of the day .. with the slightest miracle , there is chance
never know the result till we try to fight for the battle .. instinct sometimes will lead us to the battle , but do we follow the instinct ?
you just know that the opponent's soldiers have left the camp due to argument ... so , you go all out , thinking the battle is yours .. but is there possibility that they will reunion back ?
you realise they have a meeting somewhere high in the mountain for a whole day .. waiting curiously what will happen , what the result , does they reunion ? if they reunion , all efforts will be worthless .. but since decision has been made to go all out , why regret of our action .. there still turning back solution as there are a lot battles elsewhere where you can conquer larger area ... it is not only this small area left in the world ..
although you really "want" this piece of land , if it is not yours .. whatever you do will be useless .. just accept the reality and leave the land and conquer another land ... the first step is to forget about the land ... dont get emotion to control your action , but you yourself takes control of your emotion (EQ).
every battles make us more mature towards something ..
Sunday, September 12, 2010
Experience
Asking the correct questions at the right time and using your listening skill to analyse the other individual's opinion ..
use analytical skill to interpret whether it is right or wrong .. as it may be right in their perspective but different in ours .. at least consult more than 1 advice before making any conclusion .
I am lucky enough to be borned in this family where my father is an entrepreneur .. not only im learning from him about business , but from other experienced people of networking of his ...
Get this valuable opportunity to meet this ex-CFO of a PLC ( ICAEW holder) . the professionalism of her , the broad knowledge in finance , her investor's point of view , confidence in the way she speak , and all others enlighten me towards adult working life ..
really learn a lot from this experienced people .. after hearing from her , i thought she is "100% correct" due to her convincing tone .. but actually there are loopholes here and there which are interpreted by my dad .. it is not all about listening and accepting but , listening and "thinking"
which may be very applicable in study as well .
while having dinner with my relatives , i always sit beside my dad while he talks with my uncles and aunties .. i have uncles who work in Dubai , China and locally , as a GM , FC , and others .. there are all my real life knowledge-provider to me ... the generosity of my dad in treating my uncles for dinner really pays off as it fosters our relationship as well as learning process ..
Entrepreneur and employee have different mindset .. my dad is a real entrepreneur ... the skills he possesses , in both
whether you want to fall into the 20%(rich) / 80% ( poor) depends on your commitment and determination . nothing comes easy , it is the hardwork that will pay at the end ..
use analytical skill to interpret whether it is right or wrong .. as it may be right in their perspective but different in ours .. at least consult more than 1 advice before making any conclusion .
I am lucky enough to be borned in this family where my father is an entrepreneur .. not only im learning from him about business , but from other experienced people of networking of his ...
Get this valuable opportunity to meet this ex-CFO of a PLC ( ICAEW holder) . the professionalism of her , the broad knowledge in finance , her investor's point of view , confidence in the way she speak , and all others enlighten me towards adult working life ..
really learn a lot from this experienced people .. after hearing from her , i thought she is "100% correct" due to her convincing tone .. but actually there are loopholes here and there which are interpreted by my dad .. it is not all about listening and accepting but , listening and "thinking"
which may be very applicable in study as well .
while having dinner with my relatives , i always sit beside my dad while he talks with my uncles and aunties .. i have uncles who work in Dubai , China and locally , as a GM , FC , and others .. there are all my real life knowledge-provider to me ... the generosity of my dad in treating my uncles for dinner really pays off as it fosters our relationship as well as learning process ..
Entrepreneur and employee have different mindset .. my dad is a real entrepreneur ... the skills he possesses , in both
- specialist as a valuer
- generalist as a businessman
whether you want to fall into the 20%(rich) / 80% ( poor) depends on your commitment and determination . nothing comes easy , it is the hardwork that will pay at the end ..
Thursday, September 9, 2010
Personaliy
Being honest at first will help in future ..
tell out the prob and clarify things before regret over something in the past ..
when i have make up my decision , never regret over it ... and also dont put too much hope on it , or else when the disappointment comes , it hurts deeply ...
the "feel" sometimes leads me the way ... but sometimes "reality" sips in also , so have to consider both aspects ... or else the "reality" will beat the "feel" at the end if not managed well ..
im not sure i have done the right thing .. but rather thinking about it over and over again , do what i think is "right" - that's life - DO IT OR LEAVE IT , decision has to be made at the end ..
it may sounds vague now , as i think it is not the right time to discuss about the issue im immerse deeply into now ..
tell out the prob and clarify things before regret over something in the past ..
when i have make up my decision , never regret over it ... and also dont put too much hope on it , or else when the disappointment comes , it hurts deeply ...
the "feel" sometimes leads me the way ... but sometimes "reality" sips in also , so have to consider both aspects ... or else the "reality" will beat the "feel" at the end if not managed well ..
im not sure i have done the right thing .. but rather thinking about it over and over again , do what i think is "right" - that's life - DO IT OR LEAVE IT , decision has to be made at the end ..
it may sounds vague now , as i think it is not the right time to discuss about the issue im immerse deeply into now ..
Wednesday, September 8, 2010
BRAND NEW
Seems like i abandon blogging for long time . too busy with study ? im not sure what the reason .. maybe i cant see my real "purpose" for blogging .. but now sometime cross my mind
feel like making this blog as a "learning site" for me and readers ... everytime i visit my blog , i will post something related to what i learn - general knowledge , academic knowledge ( try to interpret in how i apply in real life ) , latest news and updates , handling EQ , and others.
i will make this 365days event .. not probably to update daily , but will be as frequent as possible ..
feel like making this blog as a "learning site" for me and readers ... everytime i visit my blog , i will post something related to what i learn - general knowledge , academic knowledge ( try to interpret in how i apply in real life ) , latest news and updates , handling EQ , and others.
i will make this 365days event .. not probably to update daily , but will be as frequent as possible ..
Sunday, July 4, 2010
BungaLow
it is kinda my dream to stay in a bungalow house ..
today , went to few bungalow of my dad's potential customer ... awesomely huge mansion !! when we drove past the bungalow houses , astonished with all the BMW , Mercedes .- 90%...im assured - mostly do business or politician
the Interior Design is all that those matter to me .. especially the living room where you serve your friends ... size is not an issue .. ID has to be perfect ..
monthly having party at house - garden .. seems so fun .. make a karaoke + dancing floor in the house ..haha - clubbing area .. watch HD movie at home with superb theatre system ..
haha all these are my dream - which may materialise if i do BIG BUSINESS .. now study first . tata
today , went to few bungalow of my dad's potential customer ... awesomely huge mansion !! when we drove past the bungalow houses , astonished with all the BMW , Mercedes .- 90%...im assured - mostly do business or politician
the Interior Design is all that those matter to me .. especially the living room where you serve your friends ... size is not an issue .. ID has to be perfect ..
monthly having party at house - garden .. seems so fun .. make a karaoke + dancing floor in the house ..haha - clubbing area .. watch HD movie at home with superb theatre system ..
haha all these are my dream - which may materialise if i do BIG BUSINESS .. now study first . tata
Saturday, July 3, 2010
Additional Income
For a student , there is tendency to earn extra pocket money to enjoy luxury life at young age .. with no financial burden to support family , housing expenditure and others , all extra pocket money can be spend all on luxury items ..
1)Get the chance to talk to my friends about way to make extra income
the product - Educational product for lower and secondary school students ... some kinds of online questions bank - will be answered via the internet - send to examiner to correct it .. it cost rm500+ per semester i think ..
being an "Agent" for the company , we have to recruit 2 people under me - Pyramid style .. then sales from both of them will comes to me in certain % ... the more people under me , the more money i earn
do u heard of MLM - multi level marketing ... it can grow incredibly fast with "people" ... ones can earn more money by asking people to join rather than selling the products ... a successful MLM company is AMWAY ...
2) another way to earn money - Internet Direct Selling .. my friends sell products via a website created by him ... it getting hot nowadays where people prefer to shop online at home rather than going out ... then the product will be shipped to your gateside ... how convenience the technology makes us ..
3) my another entrepreneur thinking friend - start operate his own business with few of his partner - selling computer hardwares ... make some extra pocket money sufficient for a student to spend ..
4) another friend who has good family background - own a parking lots at age of 19 .. monthly revenue can reach 4 digits ... + his dad passes few residential premises to him ... where he earns rental income - his target 5digits at 20 years old ..
these few ways of making money works for us rather than going out find employment impressed me ....
1)Get the chance to talk to my friends about way to make extra income
the product - Educational product for lower and secondary school students ... some kinds of online questions bank - will be answered via the internet - send to examiner to correct it .. it cost rm500+ per semester i think ..
being an "Agent" for the company , we have to recruit 2 people under me - Pyramid style .. then sales from both of them will comes to me in certain % ... the more people under me , the more money i earn
do u heard of MLM - multi level marketing ... it can grow incredibly fast with "people" ... ones can earn more money by asking people to join rather than selling the products ... a successful MLM company is AMWAY ...
2) another way to earn money - Internet Direct Selling .. my friends sell products via a website created by him ... it getting hot nowadays where people prefer to shop online at home rather than going out ... then the product will be shipped to your gateside ... how convenience the technology makes us ..
3) my another entrepreneur thinking friend - start operate his own business with few of his partner - selling computer hardwares ... make some extra pocket money sufficient for a student to spend ..
4) another friend who has good family background - own a parking lots at age of 19 .. monthly revenue can reach 4 digits ... + his dad passes few residential premises to him ... where he earns rental income - his target 5digits at 20 years old ..
these few ways of making money works for us rather than going out find employment impressed me ....
Training
Went to my dad's office to learn the operation of the company these few days ...
being a "sponge" who has 0 in practical training , i try to absorb as many info as possible .. ask for any uncertainties ... know the people and system in the company ..
being delegated industrial training - prepare P $ L account for bank facilities ... with my basic knowledge and some reference of data in the company , i prepare a forecast ... with this opportunity , i got the chance to know the financial position of the company ..
what i learn most is the way my dad - entrepreneur in leading the team in the meeting .. how convincing he speaks , how confidence , and how intelligent he speaks .. being bombard by numerous questions - but solve easily ...
the quotation of the day ... - "salesman never die" - emphasize few times to reinforce this facts to the staffs .. sales have beeen down for the past few months ... my dad uses intelligent way to address the problem to the related staff...
sitting by the side and watch also makes me learn ... who knows one day i will be sitting on his chair and speaks ..
being a "sponge" who has 0 in practical training , i try to absorb as many info as possible .. ask for any uncertainties ... know the people and system in the company ..
being delegated industrial training - prepare P $ L account for bank facilities ... with my basic knowledge and some reference of data in the company , i prepare a forecast ... with this opportunity , i got the chance to know the financial position of the company ..
what i learn most is the way my dad - entrepreneur in leading the team in the meeting .. how convincing he speaks , how confidence , and how intelligent he speaks .. being bombard by numerous questions - but solve easily ...
the quotation of the day ... - "salesman never die" - emphasize few times to reinforce this facts to the staffs .. sales have beeen down for the past few months ... my dad uses intelligent way to address the problem to the related staff...
sitting by the side and watch also makes me learn ... who knows one day i will be sitting on his chair and speaks ..
Betting
The greed in people to earn extra money ..
something on the road caught my attention - rm1600- rm3400 per week !! then there is number on the bottom of the advertisement ..
FIFA World Cup - everyone seems betting to increase the excitement .. of course , the feeling will be difference if you bet for the team and the players goal !!
the tendency to
although Msia has limited legal sport betting company , people still keen go for illegal company for ease of transaction ... i heard from my hairstylist today - min bet is rm8 ... but you have to make an account first for transferring of $$ ..
something on the road caught my attention - rm1600- rm3400 per week !! then there is number on the bottom of the advertisement ..
FIFA World Cup - everyone seems betting to increase the excitement .. of course , the feeling will be difference if you bet for the team and the players goal !!
the tendency to
- continue betting - win more money
- continue betting - to win back the money lost in previous game
although Msia has limited legal sport betting company , people still keen go for illegal company for ease of transaction ... i heard from my hairstylist today - min bet is rm8 ... but you have to make an account first for transferring of $$ ..
Saturday, June 19, 2010
SmS / CaLL ?
Yesterday , i make phone call more than i did in a week ..
prefer call them one by one to show my courtesy , and get the message transfers easier than smsing ..
and what i hate of smsing is some people reply VERY SLOW ... some even reply the next day .. my message tone is a freaking long 1 just to make sure i read the sms ..
sms also seems to encourage me to use short form to type faster .. with my touch screen phone , i can type x2 faster than last time ... sms can let you think before you type , but Calling requires you to instantenuous say it out ..so sometimes i sms my dad rather than calling ..
the longest phone call i made is around 1 hour .. phone also hot d . whatever crap also talk to reach that record ..haha ..
so ,choose to right channel of communication to get the message delivers ..
prefer call them one by one to show my courtesy , and get the message transfers easier than smsing ..
and what i hate of smsing is some people reply VERY SLOW ... some even reply the next day .. my message tone is a freaking long 1 just to make sure i read the sms ..
sms also seems to encourage me to use short form to type faster .. with my touch screen phone , i can type x2 faster than last time ... sms can let you think before you type , but Calling requires you to instantenuous say it out ..so sometimes i sms my dad rather than calling ..
the longest phone call i made is around 1 hour .. phone also hot d . whatever crap also talk to reach that record ..haha ..
so ,choose to right channel of communication to get the message delivers ..
Friday, June 18, 2010
ProBlem
this may not be big problem compared to my dad's daily problem ... but my dad always remind me to be "calm" while dealing with it . no point shouting around ... while my dad watched IP Man 2 , he noticed how "calm" Donny Yen is while finding ways to attack the weakness of enemy .
im not trying to blame the people who create the problem . just that if they can help us solve the problem together .... giving money for replacement is not everything !
i will not describe the problem as i dont find it necessary ... those that i contacted will understand .. last minute problem where less time is available to solve the problem is the hard part ... chasing after the time to find solution .
hope the outcome will be great 1 ..
im not trying to blame the people who create the problem . just that if they can help us solve the problem together .... giving money for replacement is not everything !
i will not describe the problem as i dont find it necessary ... those that i contacted will understand .. last minute problem where less time is available to solve the problem is the hard part ... chasing after the time to find solution .
hope the outcome will be great 1 ..
Thursday, June 17, 2010
BacK
i just notice how long i have not been updating my blog . This suppose to be my channel to express my view and stuffs .
but i dont think i will make it daily updating as last time . it may be once a week ... or if i have something comes to mind that i would like to share , i will post . ( exclude sensitive issues :).. )
exam over . do have much time to go out .. but not that much of excitement as last time . when you treat exam as " normal life " , after exam you will feel " normal life " as well ... we shouldnt make days before exam to be " suffering " or what . when you think another way round , you will realise exam is really the time to test the application of knowledge in case study .
does ACCA is as hard as people say ? before i join ACCA , i hear a lot of reviews of the course .... nothing is easy , if without effort put in . lecturer always emphasizes on our attitude towards study ... the initiative that makes the different .
but Malaysia style of teaching has some problem ... too spoon-feeding. i prefer to try UK style of learning . more independent style .... then i will highlight the difference if i got the chance to go UK study ...
after two days of hanging out from morning to night ... im exhausted ... tomorrow gonna stay at home rest n relax . maybe at night only go out yam cha .... go out confirm spend $ . feel like earning some pocket money . i have been approach by my friend about MLM ..i will brief about the money making process in next post .
long time never try few sports in one day . basketball , then badminton ... really exhausting . then sit down in CC n rest .... ( while resting , play dota ^^ ) .. good teamwork with my friends . fantasic game with my pro friends - ee hin even DOUBLE KILL ...
today another long day with my friends . went to 1U for movie ... thought of watching a movie only .. but ended up 2 movies back to back . 2 different types of movie -
but i dont think i will make it daily updating as last time . it may be once a week ... or if i have something comes to mind that i would like to share , i will post . ( exclude sensitive issues :).. )
exam over . do have much time to go out .. but not that much of excitement as last time . when you treat exam as " normal life " , after exam you will feel " normal life " as well ... we shouldnt make days before exam to be " suffering " or what . when you think another way round , you will realise exam is really the time to test the application of knowledge in case study .
does ACCA is as hard as people say ? before i join ACCA , i hear a lot of reviews of the course .... nothing is easy , if without effort put in . lecturer always emphasizes on our attitude towards study ... the initiative that makes the different .
but Malaysia style of teaching has some problem ... too spoon-feeding. i prefer to try UK style of learning . more independent style .... then i will highlight the difference if i got the chance to go UK study ...
after two days of hanging out from morning to night ... im exhausted ... tomorrow gonna stay at home rest n relax . maybe at night only go out yam cha .... go out confirm spend $ . feel like earning some pocket money . i have been approach by my friend about MLM ..i will brief about the money making process in next post .
long time never try few sports in one day . basketball , then badminton ... really exhausting . then sit down in CC n rest .... ( while resting , play dota ^^ ) .. good teamwork with my friends . fantasic game with my pro friends - ee hin even DOUBLE KILL ...
today another long day with my friends . went to 1U for movie ... thought of watching a movie only .. but ended up 2 movies back to back . 2 different types of movie -
- A-TEAM ... what a marvelous piece of storyline .... i like the strategy and planning involved in military combat ... even have some Sun Tzu Art of War strategy ...with some simple jokes + the smart looking actor ... it is worthwhile going to watch this movie .
- Toy Story 3 .. supposingly wanna watch 3D .. but TGV dont have . so go for ordinary 1 ... initiallly , i thought of entering the wrong cinema ... as the movie only start after 20mins from showtime ... before that , there is a funny animation which is not related to the movie .. the movie gives me a mixed feeling .. after watching A-TEAM first , toy story really looks more suitable for kids .. all the toys talking ... but during the suspense , when the toys get into adventure of escaping from the evil reigned of Mighty Bear , it gets interesting ...
Monday, May 3, 2010
LiBraRy
Engine gets started after 1 week of maintenance ...
i mean one week of slacking off after mock exam ... spend my time on some known to be time-consuming stuffs - dota ... quite addicted when i start again ..
today went all the way to Sunway Library .. woke up late ... then finished off the final episode of tvb series only started to go ... as usual , the library has people whispering to each others ... some stop after few talks , but a few girls keep "popek " non-stop behind me ... haiz ...
went out to take some air ... i saw many friends in coincidence :-
feel like going to Monash library or National Library ... which looks and sounds more like a library rather than Sunway ...
i mean one week of slacking off after mock exam ... spend my time on some known to be time-consuming stuffs - dota ... quite addicted when i start again ..
today went all the way to Sunway Library .. woke up late ... then finished off the final episode of tvb series only started to go ... as usual , the library has people whispering to each others ... some stop after few talks , but a few girls keep "popek " non-stop behind me ... haiz ...
went out to take some air ... i saw many friends in coincidence :-
- shu lin
- pei xi
- wing wing
- lynn
- jack
- tj
- cheh yuen's cousin
feel like going to Monash library or National Library ... which looks and sounds more like a library rather than Sunway ...
Friday, April 30, 2010
DaTing
guess who ? my code name mum ? haha ... it is my mum la ..
try to search food via www.vkeong.com ....but unsuccessful .. mum wants air-cond .. and more chinese type food ..
so rather than searching aimlessly in the internet , we went to go round Puchong for restaurant ( with lots of ppl )..
try this Restaurant Hoppy ... speciality dish - Duck ... large plastic Duck outside the restaurant ... the boss very friendly ... introduce the food with a smile on her face ... and the taufu really nice !! better among other well-known restaurants ...
my mum quite up to trend ,huh ... just release this year
try to search food via www.vkeong.com ....but unsuccessful .. mum wants air-cond .. and more chinese type food ..
so rather than searching aimlessly in the internet , we went to go round Puchong for restaurant ( with lots of ppl )..
try this Restaurant Hoppy ... speciality dish - Duck ... large plastic Duck outside the restaurant ... the boss very friendly ... introduce the food with a smile on her face ... and the taufu really nice !! better among other well-known restaurants ...
my mum quite up to trend ,huh ... just release this year
Monday, April 26, 2010
CarS
When you are driving at Sunway area , you will notice there are a lot modified and luxurious cars !! there is even ferrari .... others are Lexus , MiniCooper , BMW , Mercedes , Lambo ...... learn a lot from my expert friends about cars ...i have a friend who modifies his car till it is totally different ... it is really nice - but a bit LaLa ...
In my bro's car. .. there is remote control for the player. .. let my mum drive while i help them choose the songs ....
after you go for something good , then you try something else .. it feels different ... i have tried quite some cars .... so far , i feel Saga still got room for improvement ( temporarily have to drive this car ) ... pick up - Booom BOOOOOMM while i step the oil , but yet doesnt speed off ... then my mum says , "you are ferrari racer meh ? "
recently the horn suddenly gone crazy ... horn by itself .... while my mum was driving it ....then my mum went to the mechanics and pull out the wires ... now i drive it without horn - which is my weapon in case of emergency ... so now have to drive cautiousy..
In my bro's car. .. there is remote control for the player. .. let my mum drive while i help them choose the songs ....
after you go for something good , then you try something else .. it feels different ... i have tried quite some cars .... so far , i feel Saga still got room for improvement ( temporarily have to drive this car ) ... pick up - Booom BOOOOOMM while i step the oil , but yet doesnt speed off ... then my mum says , "you are ferrari racer meh ? "
recently the horn suddenly gone crazy ... horn by itself .... while my mum was driving it ....then my mum went to the mechanics and pull out the wires ... now i drive it without horn - which is my weapon in case of emergency ... so now have to drive cautiousy..
RanDom
All these are not arranged in chronogical order ...
camwhore with my buddy , Martin ... during Graduation day ...
I remember the last time i played this game was with my friend , Guo Dung ... that time , i had difficulty in pulling the bow ..... now , no problem :P
no 7 is my result.. bulleye !! zapp zapp zappppp ...
i tried gym in Fitness First- IOI Mall Puchong / Leisure Mall , Celebrity Fitness - Mid Valley / Sunway Pyramid .. but i still like MyFitness in my area here ...more convenient ... and less crowded ....
Nicole's Birthday ~
My bro new gadget .... crystal clear when he took pictures of the TVB actress ( will upload the photos when i change my comp )
camwhore with my buddy , Martin ... during Graduation day ...
I remember the last time i played this game was with my friend , Guo Dung ... that time , i had difficulty in pulling the bow ..... now , no problem :P
no 7 is my result.. bulleye !! zapp zapp zappppp ...
i tried gym in Fitness First- IOI Mall Puchong / Leisure Mall , Celebrity Fitness - Mid Valley / Sunway Pyramid .. but i still like MyFitness in my area here ...more convenient ... and less crowded ....
Nicole's Birthday ~
My bro new gadget .... crystal clear when he took pictures of the TVB actress ( will upload the photos when i change my comp )
Tuesday, April 13, 2010
HAPPY BIRTHDAY !!!
every year , each and everyone of us will experience - Birthday !
the true meaning behind it can be great ....
we often go out for outing ,get a cake , sing birthday song ( multi-language ) , receive present , and EAT BIG !
no matter whom you celebrate with , it will definitely be great 1 .... i even hear a speech about surprise birthday ~ to make it even more memorable ...
my birthday - falls on December ... usually considered to be younger than other classmates who borned earlier ... few months different doesnt make much difference anyway ... i like my friend's quotation - " gaining another year of knowledge, thus being wiser now" ....
and here i WISH HAPPIEEE BURTHDAYY TO -
the true meaning behind it can be great ....
we often go out for outing ,get a cake , sing birthday song ( multi-language ) , receive present , and EAT BIG !
no matter whom you celebrate with , it will definitely be great 1 .... i even hear a speech about surprise birthday ~ to make it even more memorable ...
my birthday - falls on December ... usually considered to be younger than other classmates who borned earlier ... few months different doesnt make much difference anyway ... i like my friend's quotation - " gaining another year of knowledge, thus being wiser now" ....
and here i WISH HAPPIEEE BURTHDAYY TO -
- Pei Mun - 12/4
- Zhao Yen -12/4
- Kenneth Goh - 14/4
- Pui Yee - 14/4
- my bro -14/4
Saturday, April 10, 2010
Instantaneous communication
SMS becomes hit nowadays .... even my dad smses me " what time you back ?" ..haha
i got a cousin who holds the handphone wherever she goes ... even while eating , she will sms .... 1000 sms per day is possible ... somemore the Digi plan - encourages us to sms more .... im loyal Maxis user anyway ^^ ....
SMS is fast ( compared to letter writing ) ... .but sometimes you cannot expect the fast reply as compared to phone call .... if i got something urgent , i prefer phone call rather than waiting for SMS reply .... which some people will take ages ...
it becomes a habit of mine to reply message as soon as i see there is message received .... it's better to call your friend to come out rather than smsing .... this type of communication somehow limit our communication skills ... and also our english vocab ...
i got a cousin who holds the handphone wherever she goes ... even while eating , she will sms .... 1000 sms per day is possible ... somemore the Digi plan - encourages us to sms more .... im loyal Maxis user anyway ^^ ....
SMS is fast ( compared to letter writing ) ... .but sometimes you cannot expect the fast reply as compared to phone call .... if i got something urgent , i prefer phone call rather than waiting for SMS reply .... which some people will take ages ...
it becomes a habit of mine to reply message as soon as i see there is message received .... it's better to call your friend to come out rather than smsing .... this type of communication somehow limit our communication skills ... and also our english vocab ...
SurpRise Different
i reviewed back my past folder - Pictures ... and i was kinda surprised to realise how thin im last thin ... understand why im known as "stick "....
n my face becomes broader now ... fat on wrong place pulak ... face n tummy bigger ... =.=
next time i will post the pictures of my significance different if you observe closely .... everytime i walk pass my lecturer , she will like ask " how to become as thin as you " ? >< .... still havent achieve the objective/ aim to eliminate the "thin" word being used on me .... but it encourages me further push hard ...
my weight gain progress slow down slightly .... maybe the food consumed need to be further increased ... but my body size ( while half-naked ) really got different !!
n my face becomes broader now ... fat on wrong place pulak ... face n tummy bigger ... =.=
next time i will post the pictures of my significance different if you observe closely .... everytime i walk pass my lecturer , she will like ask " how to become as thin as you " ? >< .... still havent achieve the objective/ aim to eliminate the "thin" word being used on me .... but it encourages me further push hard ...
my weight gain progress slow down slightly .... maybe the food consumed need to be further increased ... but my body size ( while half-naked ) really got different !!
Monday, April 5, 2010
Public Speaking
i still remember the first time i give speech in the public is during my primary school days as a prefect ... i was given responsible to read out the ikrar while the students recite it after me ...
i read from a book that a human being will feel threaten while in the public where all the eyes are gazing at you .... but how do you overcome this threatening feeling ? while on the stage , sometimes you care what people think of you and your speech .... maybe try to focus on giving the speech rather than caring about other minor things ...
i would say the utmost things to reduce the fear on the stage is PRACTISE .... i find one great place to train my public speaking in my college - ToastMaster club ...
before it reached my turn to give short talk , i felt uncomfortable ... my heartbeat fastens without me realising ... i will sometimes stutter while speaking ... i still havent find the proper way to conquer my fear .... i will definitely go for the TableTalk - less than 3 minutes talk ..... no matter how good other speakers are , i will raise my hand for my turn .... just go out n enjoy myself ... that's life !!
Saturday, April 3, 2010
Graduation !
It is CAT-ACCA graduation this morning .... something like demi-grad for me , since i still have ACCA to go before i can start working ..
the thing that really caught my attention this morning are those world prize students !! without me realising , Sunway TES conquers 80 % of the top prizes in the world and Malaysia ... there is even bronze medalist .... what an achievement !
but too academic wise will bring detriment in future ... leadership skill and soft skill are prone to be the criteria for employment in companies nowadays ... you cant be showing your result the whole period of employment .. it will definitely help in the interview process .. but later on, it depends on urself ...
but to really acquire this achievement , it means they are really SMART and EXtreme hardworking ... no doubt on that ...
the event went on smoothly ... with some delay for the VVIP to enter the hall ... overall , the speech is brief and precise ... the cert presentation quite fast ...... the best part of this event is free seating ... they give you cert when you register ... so they dont have to rearrange on the stage according to our names to speed up the process ...
the food - 7/10 .... for the price we paid for it - rm 90 .... seems not worth it .... better go JOGOYA spam ~ realise what i forget to bring during the event .... my FOOD .... starving from 10.30- 1.30 .....now Ryan needs food every 3 hours .. even i ate heavy breakfast in the morning - 7am .... it cant last me till 1.30 ..... handy energy pack will be really HANDY ~
Tuesday, March 23, 2010
BloG
It has been 2 weeks since i blog ....
quite busy recently with the PT2 , but the effort ends up worthwhile ... feels busy for the first week after exam as usual ... slacken up and prefer for gaming ... recently just back to 3 hours of continuos gaming - Dota .... just the temporary temptation to play ....
yesterday , met up Lynn to visit Sri KL - to get the SPM cert , LCCI , Cambridge 1119 ..... woke up late ... =.= make my friend waited made me feel uneasy ... Wai Ming !! sleep early next time
met a lot of teachers in Sri KL .. guess what ... most of them cant remember my name .. .maybe im not that popular ...haha ... and it is easier for them to remember Christian name -one word > Ryan ~ ....they just have too many student names to remember .... now in my college , lecturer calls us using the attendance list .... there is no way to remember 100+ names !!
a lot changes in the school ... new block , new teachers .... but the feeling still same .... reminisce back the jokes around with my friends in the class - laugh non-stop ... especially Wai Suan , Soon Hong .... make a lot great friends there in the 2years
just found out that badminton is very fun !!! even better than basketball ...the speed , teamwork , skills , techniques .... it is better to play with experienced players ... that is when you will learn their techniques ... when you have the "ohm" it seems you simply swing the racquet , it will hit .... haha .....
the day before that , i watched KKK n Tan - World Number 1 badminton player from Msia .... it seems any ball from any angle , any speed , they also can serve back .... they are not simply hit , but the fast reflex from the training ... that's why i believe training will makes a person to change ... no need any personal ... your friend is your nearest place to seek advice ....
remember 1 principle while playing .'.. YOU CAN REACH THE SHUTTLECOCK - just run for it !! "
quite busy recently with the PT2 , but the effort ends up worthwhile ... feels busy for the first week after exam as usual ... slacken up and prefer for gaming ... recently just back to 3 hours of continuos gaming - Dota .... just the temporary temptation to play ....
yesterday , met up Lynn to visit Sri KL - to get the SPM cert , LCCI , Cambridge 1119 ..... woke up late ... =.= make my friend waited made me feel uneasy ... Wai Ming !! sleep early next time
met a lot of teachers in Sri KL .. guess what ... most of them cant remember my name .. .maybe im not that popular ...haha ... and it is easier for them to remember Christian name -one word > Ryan ~ ....they just have too many student names to remember .... now in my college , lecturer calls us using the attendance list .... there is no way to remember 100+ names !!
a lot changes in the school ... new block , new teachers .... but the feeling still same .... reminisce back the jokes around with my friends in the class - laugh non-stop ... especially Wai Suan , Soon Hong .... make a lot great friends there in the 2years
just found out that badminton is very fun !!! even better than basketball ...the speed , teamwork , skills , techniques .... it is better to play with experienced players ... that is when you will learn their techniques ... when you have the "ohm" it seems you simply swing the racquet , it will hit .... haha .....
the day before that , i watched KKK n Tan - World Number 1 badminton player from Msia .... it seems any ball from any angle , any speed , they also can serve back .... they are not simply hit , but the fast reflex from the training ... that's why i believe training will makes a person to change ... no need any personal ... your friend is your nearest place to seek advice ....
remember 1 principle while playing .'.. YOU CAN REACH THE SHUTTLECOCK - just run for it !! "
Monday, March 8, 2010
EfforT -Workout for Ectomorph
You would never know till you try .
i heard about quite a number of cases where skinny person - pops > become "big guy " ... it seems miracle to me initially ... but now it seems achievable ..
How much time you spend on something , it will show equivalent result ... ( except wrong technique is used ) ... same for studying , i doubt someone who self-study 2hours a day will fail a paper ....
For gym , consistency and determination are important .. .
Pyramid set - most recommended .. it means increase the weight for every set .... it will result in optimum growth of muscle cells ...
From my reading , fast and clean push / pull will build muscle fibres faster ... it is better to prevent "cheat set " or "failure set " ... always know the procedures before trying a new workout as wrong technique results in injury .. www.bodybuilding.com is a great site which offers complete videos of the workout to be tried ...variation will reduce boredom ..
Get a workout buddy .... not only to support you in last set .... but also will motivate you to keep up with him ... Another way to motivate is take picture of yourself without shirt ... after 1month take off and compare ... you will see some gradual difference ! dont expect it to change in a day .. sometimes , do compare muscle with my buddy - which do motivate me
Rest is very important !! every parts of main muscles need around 7days or more to recover ... in between set , 1-2 minutes will work well ( i usually wait till my friend finishes his set , then i do .. we do alternatively ) go to your bed and sleep ~~ 8hours a day ... before sleep , take milk ( easily digested to induce sleeping process ) ... quality sleep makes the difference the next day..
Compound exercise involves multiple parts of muscle is recommended compared to "Isolation exercise ' ... strengthen more muscles at the same time and save time .. another way to save time is do SuperSet ... no rest after 1 exercise ...but do different parts of body alternatively ...
Finally my workout plan
my aim is not to be too muscular .. but just slightly bigger size ( ideal for my height is 70kg) ... around 65kg i will be satisfy ... then wear clothes will be nicer .... but may have to sacrifice some pants which cant fit ..haha
i heard about quite a number of cases where skinny person - pops > become "big guy " ... it seems miracle to me initially ... but now it seems achievable ..
How much time you spend on something , it will show equivalent result ... ( except wrong technique is used ) ... same for studying , i doubt someone who self-study 2hours a day will fail a paper ....
For gym , consistency and determination are important .. .
- Consistency - going for gym regularly ( we pay for it !!! ) 3days a week is the minimum for me ... since i sacrifice other entertainments , it still works for me
- Determination - if really want to gain weight - no other way but to push hard ... set an aim and complete the reps & sets ....
Pyramid set - most recommended .. it means increase the weight for every set .... it will result in optimum growth of muscle cells ...
From my reading , fast and clean push / pull will build muscle fibres faster ... it is better to prevent "cheat set " or "failure set " ... always know the procedures before trying a new workout as wrong technique results in injury .. www.bodybuilding.com is a great site which offers complete videos of the workout to be tried ...variation will reduce boredom ..
Get a workout buddy .... not only to support you in last set .... but also will motivate you to keep up with him ... Another way to motivate is take picture of yourself without shirt ... after 1month take off and compare ... you will see some gradual difference ! dont expect it to change in a day .. sometimes , do compare muscle with my buddy - which do motivate me
Rest is very important !! every parts of main muscles need around 7days or more to recover ... in between set , 1-2 minutes will work well ( i usually wait till my friend finishes his set , then i do .. we do alternatively ) go to your bed and sleep ~~ 8hours a day ... before sleep , take milk ( easily digested to induce sleeping process ) ... quality sleep makes the difference the next day..
Compound exercise involves multiple parts of muscle is recommended compared to "Isolation exercise ' ... strengthen more muscles at the same time and save time .. another way to save time is do SuperSet ... no rest after 1 exercise ...but do different parts of body alternatively ...
Finally my workout plan
- Chest , Back , abs
- Biceps , triceps , forearm
- Shoulder , leg & traps
my aim is not to be too muscular .. but just slightly bigger size ( ideal for my height is 70kg) ... around 65kg i will be satisfy ... then wear clothes will be nicer .... but may have to sacrifice some pants which cant fit ..haha
Tuesday, February 23, 2010
TriP to IpoH - MaKaN
In the hotel ... chest getting bigger ! roarrrr ~
Ryan's record so far 52.5 > 57 kg in two weeks ... will break more record ~
eat healthy !! salad + fruits ... high Vitamins + Minerals
High carbs food ... potato and beans recommended to gain weight
kokokrunch + milk ... cereal food .... provide continuous energy-released
Egg feast .... 6eggs - no yolk ... 2 omellete ... 1 french toast with egg !! break the egg record ... buffet anyway , just spam spam spam ~~~
Ipoh !! dont understand why the government makes the divider to block the access to ipoh after passing 1 entrance .. the divider even stretch to few km till my bro had to drive to Kuala Kangsar to make a U-turn ... additional km travelled - 50km - 30 mins wasted ..
Mum driving .. dad couldnt sleep while i drive ... =.= just let my mum drive ..
Breaking dawn for my leisure time ... i took so long to read this book ... ! from when it is released till now ... guess the story stops catching my enthusiasm to continue reading ...
Ipoh mountain - where are the trees ?
Ryan's record so far 52.5 > 57 kg in two weeks ... will break more record ~
eat healthy !! salad + fruits ... high Vitamins + Minerals
High carbs food ... potato and beans recommended to gain weight
kokokrunch + milk ... cereal food .... provide continuous energy-released
Egg feast .... 6eggs - no yolk ... 2 omellete ... 1 french toast with egg !! break the egg record ... buffet anyway , just spam spam spam ~~~
Ipoh !! dont understand why the government makes the divider to block the access to ipoh after passing 1 entrance .. the divider even stretch to few km till my bro had to drive to Kuala Kangsar to make a U-turn ... additional km travelled - 50km - 30 mins wasted ..
Mum driving .. dad couldnt sleep while i drive ... =.= just let my mum drive ..
Breaking dawn for my leisure time ... i took so long to read this book ... ! from when it is released till now ... guess the story stops catching my enthusiasm to continue reading ...
Ipoh mountain - where are the trees ?
Monday, February 22, 2010
ResuLT
Im not actually think of my exam result releasing date till most of my friends start talking about it ... then i also join the crowd and talk about it .. when i talk about it , i think of what i will get ... and starts to have butterfly in my stomach ..
1 hour before getting the result , i regularly looked at the watch ... but i still pay 110% attention to lecture ... then during first break , i went to library with my friends - those that are prepared to view it ... view it with less people better ... share the happiness with more people later on ..
kinda shocked when the screen suddenly pop out the result ..coz it was lagged for the past few minutes ... im considered fast to know my result after few trial and error in MyAcca website ( mail not received yet ) - Pass is what im gonna say .. the actual result will not be published here as 50 or 90 will makes no different = pass ... only world prize will makes the different .. so far i know my marks are not good enough
few days before result ,went to temple ... get message from god - Far From Desired Goal ~ understandable since i do aim for world prize - highest marks in the world .... have the aim only will motivate ones to achieve it ... but i do have long way to go ...
Saturday, February 20, 2010
CNY pictures ..
My sexy brother - Raymond Sum = Lam Fong .. similarity from sideway 60% ..haha ..front way decrease to 20%
Group pictures - Saujanians bai nian ... 8girls 8 boys ... each person pick 1 as u like ..haha..
thian hou gong temple .. a lot nice photos in my brother facebook photo profile
My young mum .. nobody can guess her age correctly ... :p
duplicate of me ~~ look exactly like me ..haha
ghost picture under light from downwards
Group pictures - Saujanians bai nian ... 8girls 8 boys ... each person pick 1 as u like ..haha..
thian hou gong temple .. a lot nice photos in my brother facebook photo profile
My young mum .. nobody can guess her age correctly ... :p
duplicate of me ~~ look exactly like me ..haha
ghost picture under light from downwards
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