Personaliy

Being honest at first will help in future ..

tell out the prob and clarify things before regret over something in the past ..
when i have make up my decision , never regret over it ... and also dont put too much hope on it , or else when the disappointment comes , it hurts deeply ...

the "feel" sometimes leads me the way ... but sometimes "reality" sips in also , so have to consider both aspects ... or else the "reality" will beat the "feel" at the end if not managed well ..

im not sure i have done the right thing .. but rather thinking about it over and over again , do what i think is "right" - that's life - DO IT OR LEAVE IT , decision has to be made at the end ..

it may sounds vague now , as i think it is not the right time to discuss about the issue im immerse deeply into now ..