War

in a war , when you choose the wrong battle .. you will end up losing devastating . from the beginning , shouldnt make up the decision to battle , as the conclusion is known ..

you understand the opponent has enough manpower to defeat us , they have better equipment and strategies . so if continues with battle , it will hurts phyiscally ( soldiers ), mentally ( strategies ) and time ..

but is it worthwhile to fight for the battle . is there a miracle will happen ? nobody will know till end of the day .. with the slightest miracle , there is chance

never know the result till we try to fight for the battle .. instinct sometimes will lead us to the battle , but do we follow the instinct ?

you just know that the opponent's soldiers have left the camp due to argument ... so , you go all out , thinking the battle is yours .. but is there possibility that they will reunion back ?

you realise they have a meeting somewhere high in the mountain for a whole day .. waiting curiously what will happen , what the result , does they reunion ? if they reunion , all efforts will be worthless .. but since decision has been made to go all out , why regret of our action .. there still turning back solution as there are a lot battles elsewhere where you can conquer larger area ... it is not only this small area left in the world ..

although you really "want" this piece of land , if it is not yours .. whatever you do will be useless .. just accept the reality and leave the land and conquer another land ... the first step is to forget about the land ... dont get emotion to control your action , but you yourself takes control of your emotion (EQ).

every battles make us more mature towards something ..

Experience

Asking the correct questions at the right time and using your listening skill to analyse the other individual's opinion ..

use analytical skill to interpret whether it is right or wrong .. as it may be right in their perspective but different in ours .. at least consult more than 1 advice before making any conclusion .

I am lucky enough to be borned in this family where my father is an entrepreneur .. not only im learning from him about business , but from other experienced people of networking of his ...

Get this valuable opportunity to meet this ex-CFO of a PLC ( ICAEW holder) . the professionalism of her , the broad knowledge in finance , her investor's point of view , confidence in the way she speak , and all others enlighten me towards adult working life ..

really learn a lot from this experienced people .. after hearing from her , i thought she is "100% correct" due to her convincing tone .. but actually there are loopholes here and there which are interpreted by my dad .. it is not all about listening and accepting but , listening and "thinking"
which may be very applicable in study as well .

while having dinner with my relatives , i always sit beside my dad while he talks with my uncles and aunties .. i have uncles who work in Dubai , China and locally , as a GM , FC , and others .. there are all my real life knowledge-provider to me ... the generosity of my dad in treating my uncles for dinner really pays off as it fosters our relationship as well as learning process ..

Entrepreneur and employee have different mindset .. my dad is a real entrepreneur ... the skills he possesses , in both

• specialist as a valuer
• generalist as a businessman

makes him different from others ... the lady i met this afternoon also teaches me something important - The richer get richer , the poorer get poorer ... it is not how smart you are , but is how much money you earn in future ... it may sounds like fairy tales to me as im just listening without working for it , but the concept is always applicable ...

whether you want to fall into the 20%(rich) / 80% ( poor) depends on your commitment and determination . nothing comes easy , it is the hardwork that will pay at the end ..

Personaliy

Being honest at first will help in future ..

tell out the prob and clarify things before regret over something in the past ..
when i have make up my decision , never regret over it ... and also dont put too much hope on it , or else when the disappointment comes , it hurts deeply ...

the "feel" sometimes leads me the way ... but sometimes "reality" sips in also , so have to consider both aspects ... or else the "reality" will beat the "feel" at the end if not managed well ..

im not sure i have done the right thing .. but rather thinking about it over and over again , do what i think is "right" - that's life - DO IT OR LEAVE IT , decision has to be made at the end ..

it may sounds vague now , as i think it is not the right time to discuss about the issue im immerse deeply into now ..

BRAND NEW

Seems like i abandon blogging for long time . too busy with study ? im not sure what the reason .. maybe i cant see my real "purpose" for blogging .. but now sometime cross my mind

feel like making this blog as a "learning site" for me and readers ... everytime i visit my blog , i will post something related to what i learn - general knowledge , academic knowledge ( try to interpret in how i apply in real life ) , latest news and updates , handling EQ , and others.

i will make this 365days event .. not probably to update daily , but will be as frequent as possible ..